{"id":22655,"date":"2018-05-08T00:22:30","date_gmt":"2018-05-08T00:22:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.challengedetroit.org\/?p=22655"},"modified":"2018-05-08T00:22:30","modified_gmt":"2018-05-08T00:22:30","slug":"work-work-work-life-balance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/work-work-work-life-balance\/","title":{"rendered":"Work-Work-Work-Life, Balance?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The recurring theme of the past nine months of my life has been this idea of work-life balance. I went into Challenge knowing I would be taking on a lot, but I was optimistic it would be more rewarding than overwhelming. I went from 50 hour weeks spread Monday through Friday, to 50 hour weeks spread Monday through Thursday, with Challenge on Fridays. I also began my Master\u2019s program at Wayne State. I often am at my desk before 8 am and leaving well after 9 pm. It has been an incredibly busy year, but I do not think I have ever learned as much or experienced as much growth in such a short amount of time. Drawing back on the idea of work-life balance, I have gained a lot of perspective on what works for me and how I can remain sane while still striving towards my goals.<\/p>\n<p>1. <strong>Being kind to myself<\/strong>. This has been a big learning lesson for me and has taken many shapes over the last year. I am the type of person that feels like they have to do everything, be everywhere, and hit every type of internal goal I set for myself. Over the last year, I have dropped the ball in my personal life, with school, with work and Challenge. I have stopped beating myself up over those things and instead taken a step back to make sure they do not become patterns. It is easy to feel overwhelmed when a lot is going on, and I think that is ok, but it is important to prioritize yourself and your emotions.<\/p>\n<p>2. <strong>Quality over quantity.<\/strong> This has become my new mantra in my personal life. I do not have the time to always be there with my friends for happy hours or the movies. Instead, I have had a lot more hangouts where I can talk to my friends or family face-to-face and catch up. I actually feel like my friendships with my close friends and relationships with my family have improved over this last year.<\/p>\n<p>3. <strong>Make time to be alone.<\/strong> Especially doing things I enjoy. This has taken shape in Riverwalk treks with my headphones on and the world tuned out, reading books that are not for school and a few great Netflix binges. I am an introverted person and really need that time to decompress, but I often need to remind myself of this.<\/p>\n<p>I cannot claim to be an expert in work-life balance as I do tend to overload work, but I do feel like have improved this last year in enjoying the \u2018life\u2019 portion a little more fully. Looking back, I can definitively say that these past nine months have much more rewarding than overwhelming.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The recurring theme of the past nine months of my life has been this idea of work-life balance. I went into Challenge knowing I would be taking on a lot, but I was optimistic it would be more rewarding than overwhelming. I went from 50 hour weeks spread Monday through Friday, to 50 hour weeks [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":235,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22655","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22655","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/235"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22655"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22655\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22655"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22655"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22655"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}