{"id":22807,"date":"2018-07-26T20:58:37","date_gmt":"2018-07-26T20:58:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.challengedetroit.org\/?p=22807"},"modified":"2018-07-26T20:58:37","modified_gmt":"2018-07-26T20:58:37","slug":"self-awareness-matters-to-mental-health","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/self-awareness-matters-to-mental-health\/","title":{"rendered":"Self Awareness Matters to Mental Health"},"content":{"rendered":"

It’s very clear to everyone that knows me that I’m passionate about mental health.\u00a0 While strong physical health keeps us alive,\u00a0prosperous mental health makes a life worth living.\u00a0 I just recently completed my Challenge Detroit Impact Project in collaboration with City Year Detroit, where I partnered with co-fellow Montinique Lynch to create sustainable, effective mental health programming for the local education-focused nonprofit.\u00a0 We built our program around a trauma-informed lens with a heavy focus on self care strategies.\u00a0 What this project reinforced for me was that mental health is for everyone.\u00a0 For children, young adults, and throughout adulthood, cultivating a holistic wellness in life is key to happiness, confidence, and thriving relationships.\u00a0 There’s a broad consensus that everyone wants to be happy, but I think sometimes there’s a notion that only people struggling with a mental illness need therapy or to engage in mental health supports.\u00a0 This could be far from the truth.\u00a0 I believe that everyone can work on self discovery and working towards a higher self at any point in life<\/strong>.\u00a0 One key component of this process is keen self awareness<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Most of us think of ourselves as self aware.\u00a0 And to a certain extent, we are.\u00a0 But many of us, including myself, aren’t as deeply self aware as we’d like to think.\u00a0 It’s normal.\u00a0 There’s often so much going on day to day from our job, interacting with numerous people, and other life responsibilities, it can be hard to know\u00a0exactly<\/em> where your mind is at every given moment.\u00a0 Being in tune with our emotional and behavioral tendencies can help us see how we affect the world around us and vice versa. We may discover that the thoughts and emotions that we experience often follow a similar pattern of cause and effect of how we react to our emotions and situations.\u00a0 We could call these mental habits – and everyone’s are different.\u00a0 Think of it as the analogy that everyone is seeing the world through different colored glasses.\u00a0 Learning our own mental habits and recognizing that everyone experiences the world in a different lens can help broaden our view of how the world operates and engage in more empathy and inclusivity.\u00a0 Being deeply aware of our own experiences and trauma can in turn help us in our ability to sit with others in their pain and have more understanding for ourselves and others.<\/strong>\u00a0We can elevate ourselves and our ability to reach a higher potential by being able to identify what triggers us emotionally and be able to relax that emotional response when the triggers arise.\u00a0 Know what emotion or self-serving thought is driving the emotional response and don’t let it dictate every action and behavior.<\/p>\n

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Find a quiet, peaceful place for reflection.<\/em><\/p><\/div>\n

So what practices help a person become more self aware? There are a lot of mindfulness practices that can help with this. The key is to search for the root of the thoughts and find a deeper understanding of the cause and effect of emotions and daily experiences. A few strategies that I have found helpful include some of the following:<\/p>\n

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  1. Reflection.\u00a0<\/strong>Daily reflection is great because anyone can do it anywhere and at any time. It allows us to set self goals and monitor progress, as well as look back on our experiences and notice our actions, emotions, and patterns.\u00a0 I have a daily planner that incorporates reflection, gratitude, goal setting, and self care that has been very useful to remaining steadfast in my reflection practice. (get a copy at www.empoweredlifeplanner.com<\/a>)<\/li>\n
  2. Meditate.<\/strong>\u00a0Our society places a heavy emphasis on productivity and “doing”, but sitting in silence and meditation have proven effects on wellness.\u00a0 I use silent meditation as a way to restore, but also as a way to gain deep insights about myself by noticing the thoughts that come up for me when I don’t have any external distractions.<\/li>\n
  3. Read.<\/strong>\u00a0Many psychologists, philosophers, and wellness leaders have written on the topic of self understanding.\u00a0 It has been helpful for me to gain a larger understanding of personality frameworks and how to utilize them for personal growth as well as tuning into my emotional and thought patterns.\u00a0 The book I’m currently working from is called “The Enneagram: Understanding Yourself and the Others in Your Life” by Helen Palmer (find a copy here<\/a>).<\/li>\n
  4. Therapy.\u00a0<\/strong>A stigma is often associated with therapy as a sign of weakness, or only for people that need help in their day to day functioning.\u00a0 On the contrary, therapy can be used as a tool for self awareness and discovery by utilizing a professional to guide us and pose questions that can facilitate further learning.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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    An excerpt from my favorite daily planner as an intentional reflection tool.<\/em><\/p><\/div>\n

    I frequently encourage myself to become increasingly self aware.\u00a0 It improves my life in multiple ways including my interactions with the world, a sense of walking through life more grounded, not being dominated by my emotional tendencies, and breaking free of my mental habits.\u00a0 My relationships both with myself and the people in my life have improved.\u00a0 It has been exponentially helpful to me, as someone that has struggled to deal with my trauma in the past, but also I have seen it be powerful for individuals that have not had a history of mental health problems.\u00a0 Just a reminder, mental health support is for everyone.\u00a0 Especially for those who swear they don’t need it.\u00a0 Remember to fuel mental health and thriving wellness will follow.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    It’s very clear to everyone that knows me that I’m passionate about mental health.\u00a0 While strong physical health keeps us alive,\u00a0prosperous mental health makes a life worth living.\u00a0 I just recently completed my Challenge Detroit Impact Project in collaboration with City Year Detroit, where I partnered with co-fellow Montinique Lynch to create sustainable, effective mental […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":124,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22807","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22807","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/124"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22807"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22807\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22807"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22807"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/challengedetroit.builtrare.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22807"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}